The Prophet ﷺ said: “The best of you are the best to their families, and I am the best of you to my family.” (Tirmidhī — ṣaḥīḥ). He was tender with his wives; even a morsel you feed your spouse is a charity. (al-Bukhārī).
العربية: عن عائشة رضي الله عنها أنّ رسول الله ﷺ قال: «خيرُكم خيرُكم لأهله، وأنا خيرُكم لأهلي». (الترمذي). وقال ﷺ: «ومهما أنفقتَ فهو لك صدقة، حتى اللقمة تضعها في فيّ امرأتك». (البخاري).
Be gentle, playful and kind with your spouse — it is worship and it builds a happy home.